Announcement: How To Win Back their love: A New Tool…

Here is a piece of  “The Fast Forward Technique”  from the Magic Of Making Up. You’ll find it helpful to calm yourself during that mind-numbing time during or right after a breakup.  You know what I mean, when your thoughts a screaming around inside your head, and you can’t focus, or sleep, or even hold an intelligent conversation.

This was created by T Dubb Jackson, and even though this is just a small part of  “The Fast Forward Technique“, it’s worth putting here, because it really helps.  Watch it through once, and then maybe a second time, in a dim or dark room, and turn your monitor off, just leaving the sound on, and

I think a big part of the problems we have during a breakup, is that we really don’t have the tools in our toolbox to help us cope with this stuff (Lord help me if I ever go through is so much that I get “good” at it!) So tools like these are REALLY helpful.

For the rest of “The Fast Foward Technique”, and more “Tools” from T Dub Jackson,


How to win back their love, the first days.

If you are looking around and wondering how to win back your love, then I imagine that you have found yourself in a spot where you are still in love with your Ex, but they have left your relationship.

The first step you must take in order to win back their love must be to put some distance between you and them, and make sure you have your head together. It would be a huge mistake to try and win back their love within just a few days of the breakup. This is especially true if it was a loud, or painful breakup. So be sure to separate yourself from the relationship, and maintain some distance.

The Magic Of Making Up

Your first duty is to look out for your own well-being.

You just went through a painful breakup, and it has done some damage. Even if you were to try and start a relationship with someone other than your Ex, it would (at this point) be doomed to failure. You’re just not ready. So this means absolutely no contact with the Ex! If for some reason, you must (to get valuables, or property or such, then take a friend, and make it an in and out affair, with a short time limit, and keep things cordial and upbeat. Absolutely no trying to set up any sort of next meeting, and no rehashing of the breakup!

This is not an easy thing to do.

One moment you are in a committed relationship with your Ex, now you have to make NO CONTACT. However hard this is for you, keep the long-term-goal (wining back their love) in mind. The reason you have to have no contact with your Ex is that it puts you in a position of weakness. It puts you puts you in a negative and vulnerable position. This is especially true if your Ex has requested that you leave them alone. (Be honest now, you know they did.) If you continually try calling, texting, or trying to see your Ex, you will become far less appealing to them: they will think of you as pathetic.

So since Ex’s absolutely hate this behavior, and use that hate to keep the “break-up fires burning, you absolutely must use this time and energy to get yourself together.

As you make yourself the focus, make sure you are not just spending all of your time all alone. It is so easy to find yourself just sitting around, re-running the memories of your old relationship, thinking of your Ex and your failure to maintain your relationship. Now, as I’m sure you can imagine this as a guaranteed way to get depressed. Allowing yourself to get depressed is a surefire way to inherit a whole other level of major problems that you just don’t want or need to deal with right now.

Get yourself out of the house.

Reconnect with family and friends (those people who care about you), anything to keep from being alone. Definitely get out and meet new people and have some fun! I know, this might not be easy at the beginning, but is a STEP IN THE PROCESS! If you want to find out how to win back their love, you have to do this!

You will feel yourself getting back to your old self after the shock and destruction of the break-up. Now it’s time to be honest about what role you had in the break-up. You have to be honest, because you were (at least) half the problem. If you still have a mutual girl-friend (a girl that was good friends with both yourself and your Ex), now would be the time to go out to coffee with her, and tell her to be brutally honest. It’s a guarantee that she noticed EVERYTHING. You could ask your mutual guy friend, but chances are he didn’t notice a thing….sorry, but it’s true.

Especially true when the break-up is fresh, it is very easy to blame your Ex for everything that went wrong.

This is easy to do, but it is wrong.

If you hold on to this, you are lying to yourself, and won’t be able to move past the break-up to a position where you can heal. It takes two to tango: learn from your mistakes. You have to own something to fix it so it doesn’t come back to bite you again.

The point is: During this time away from your Ex, you have to be painfully honest with yourself. You have to learn, and own what you did that contributed to the break-up.
Let’s face it: you can’t fix whatever your Ex might have done that was wrong, and contributed to the breakup. You are completely unable to fix another person. You can only fix yourself.

I’ll say that again:


You can.

So did you make a mistake? Did you make a mistake that was so big that you “broke” your relationship? Or did you do something “small”? “Small” things build up, you know.

Did you do something “small”?

“Small” like a straw?

Was this the “straw that broke the camel’s back”?

See what I’m saying?

What did you do?

Whatever you did, you need to figure out how you are going to fix this. How are you going to change the behavior that made the mistake that ended up in your losing your relationship?

Now I know…..some of these steps will seem counter-intuitive.

Nobody said this was going to be easy, Rocco.

If you are genuinely serious about learning how to get your love back, then these steps, and others, are steps you MUST take.

How to win back their love: Some “Love Quotes”

Sometimes the best way to say something is the way someone more literary than you has said it. In that vein, here are some relationship quotes of note:

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”
-Oprah Winfrey

“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.” -Anthony Robbins

“Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same.” -Flavia Weedn

“The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that’s why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they’ve really done is they’ve shifted their relationship with time.” – Caroline Myss

“Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.” – Mark Twain

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with” ~ Gillian Anderson

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle

“The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.” – Helen Keller

“Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl – no superior alternative has yet been found.” – Winston Churchill

“It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.” – Kahlin Gibran

“To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person.” – Eric Fromm

“Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.” ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

“You can’t stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it’s the best thing in the world. When you’re in a relationship and it’s good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.” ~ Keith Sweat

“Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others.” ~ Stephen R. Covey

“Love doesn’t just sit there like a stone; it has to be made – like bread, remade all the time, made new.” – Ursula LeGuin

“Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it’s really no fun lying to ’em anymore.” -Norm from Cheers

Just Sayin……

How to win back their love: Your Opening Move.

Here is a video from T-Dubb Jackson, if you need to know how to win back their love, he is the guy to listen to.

For more video’s and advice on what you should do next,


How to win back your Ex: 5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

Relationships are tough. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex…….

but is this really the best step to take?

One of the best ways that you can actually get back at your ex is to work on yourself, and how you are dealing with things right now. You’ll begin to feel better almost right away, because instead of just sitting there, spinning your wheels and driving yourself crazy because you don’t know what to do, you’ll HAVE A PLAN! The added side benefit is that it may also help repair your old relationship by showing your ex how
important you are and were to them.

So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex, but they are also 5 tips to help get your Ex back!

1 – Be strong. “No one needs the needy!” This saying applies very well in broken relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or showing that you’re feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you are moving on just fine without them. Your ex may realize that they have not.

2 – Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your goal is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when trying to get your ex back. Take a break, close off communications a bit, and let them stew for a little while. This will allow your ex to clear their mind and realize how much they miss being around you.

3 – Be flexible. DON’T BE AN ASS!, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. It’s probably the LAST thing they would expect from you, and it will pique’ their intrest.

4 – Get the heck out of Dodge! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that you’re able to move on without them, and that they may have lost a gem.

5 – Be the YOU that you USED TO BE! There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being that person. You’ll feel better, more confident, and in control. Who knows? Your Ex might see you, and remember why they loved you in the first place.

You KNOW what you want, the problem is figuring out how to GET IT!

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Tips on how to win back their love..

Subj: Secret To Make Your Ex Return Your Call

Are theremagicwords you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?…

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from people that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer…”How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”


In the Magic Of Making Up, They lay
out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without
an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.

What NOT to Say!

Before we get into the actual words, let’s
go over what message almost NEVER

and worse…

Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD– Where the message sounds like

“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”


“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won’t go on and on…

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage

Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here’s the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’


Let’s look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?”
“What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.


Before you call you need to do the
“Set Up”…which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing…but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly…


Please have an underlying strategy
like they lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System
BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.


What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

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