How to win back your Ex: 5 Ways to Get Back at Your Ex

Relationships are tough. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex…….

but is this really the best step to take?

One of the best ways that you can actually get back at your ex is to work on yourself, and how you are dealing with things right now. You’ll begin to feel better almost right away, because instead of just sitting there, spinning your wheels and driving yourself crazy because you don’t know what to do, you’ll HAVE A PLAN! The added side benefit is that it may also help repair your old relationship by showing your ex how
important you are and were to them.

So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex, but they are also 5 tips to help get your Ex back!

1 – Be strong. “No one needs the needy!” This saying applies very well in broken relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or showing that you’re feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you are moving on just fine without them. Your ex may realize that they have not.

2 – Minimize communication. Closing the doors of communication may appear counterintuitive when your goal is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when trying to get your ex back. Take a break, close off communications a bit, and let them stew for a little while. This will allow your ex to clear their mind and realize how much they miss being around you.

3 – Be flexible. DON’T BE AN ASS!, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. It’s probably the LAST thing they would expect from you, and it will pique’ their intrest.

4 – Get the heck out of Dodge! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that you’re able to move on without them, and that they may have lost a gem.

5 – Be the YOU that you USED TO BE! There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being that person. You’ll feel better, more confident, and in control. Who knows? Your Ex might see you, and remember why they loved you in the first place.

You KNOW what you want, the problem is figuring out how to GET IT!

CLICK HERE  to find out how to FINALLY get it.

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